SaferSex Standards 2.0
Safer Play Spaces™
Standards for consent-forward adult lifestyle venues and events.
Safer Play Spaces™ is a SaferSex.com Standards™ program for clubs, venues, event producers, private lifestyle organizations, retreats, festivals, and adult social spaces that want clearer expectations around consent, privacy, safer-sex awareness, and accountability.
Simple promise: Safer Play Spaces™ Membership means an organization has adopted a set of minimum standards for operating a more consent-forward, safer-sex-aware, privacy-conscious space.
Adult lifestyle (or Sex positive) spaces need clearer expectations.
Many venues and events describe themselves as safe, respectful, or consent-based. The problem is that guests, members, staff, and organizers often have no clear way to know what that actually means.
Safer Play Spaces™ creates uniform standard with visibility for organizations that want safer guest experiences, clearer communication, concise reporting, safer-sex awareness, and more accountability.
The 5 baseline requirements
To be considered a Safer Play Space™, a club, venue, event producer, or organization must adopt these minimum standards.
Written Consent & Conduct Policy
Guest-Facing Rules & Orientation
Safer-Sex Supplies or Resource Access
Reporting & Response Process
Privacy, Inclusion & Accountability Commitment
Who this is for
Private Clubs
Lifestyle clubs, social lounges, members-only organizations, and adult community spaces.
Event Producers
Recurring parties, lifestyle events, kink events, retreats, festivals, and destination experiences.
Adult Venues
Spaces where adult social, sensual, kink, ENM, or sex-positive interaction may occur.
Community Organizations
Groups that host adult education, connection, community, or lifestyle-focused gatherings.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Safer Play Spaces™ Membership a certification?
No. Membership means the organization has adopted a set of minimum requirements. Certification requires a separate review against published SaferSex.com standards.
Who can apply?
Clubs, venues, event producers, private lifestyle organizations, retreats, festivals, and adult social spaces may apply.
Does being a Safer Play Space guarantee safety?
No. Safer Play Spaces does not guarantee safety, guest behavior, STI status, or risk-free participation. It reflects the organization’s commitment to providing a safer space, clearer communication, safer sex awareness, and accountability.
Does Safer Play Spaces offer legal, medical, or clinical advice?
No. Safer Play Spaces™ is a standards, education, and accountability framework. Legal, medical, insurance, and clinical guidance should come from qualified professionals in those fields.
Help raise the standard for adult lifestyle spaces.
Apply for Safer Play Spaces™ Membership or start a certification-readiness review for your venue, event, or organization.