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‘I want to try new things in bed, but I’m not sure my husband will agree’

Dear Coleen

I’m a woman in my early fifties and have suddenly found a new lease of life when it comes to sex. I want it more than I ever have and want to try new things, but I’m not sure how my husband would react.

In our twenties and thirties, we had a fabulous sex life but it hit a wall in our forties, which was probably the result of bringing up kids, busy work lives and hormonal changes for me.

It feels a bit awkward talking to him about it – don’t get me wrong, he enjoys sex, but we tend to do the same things that we’ve done for years. Any tips?

What advice would you give to this reader? Have your say in the comment section



Coleen says

Well, this is refreshing – usually women in their fifties write to me about a drop in libido because of the menopause, so I say embrace it.

I do think there’s something liberating about getting through those years of bringing up kids and feeling more independent, and having the opportunity to focus on yourself – it is sexy!

Look, I imagine your hubby will be thrilled, so why not book a weekend away and go for it? You can also initiate sex and show him what you want instead of having the conversation first – then you can talk about it afterwards.

I think it’s wonderful you’ve rediscovered your sexual confidence – make the most of it.



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